Saturday, August 29, 2015

How to find out

Sometimes I think the only way to find out if you can handle something is to try it, depending on what it is. 

Ask yourself: 
Is it worth it
Will you be happy
How many lives will it effect

Stand still

I feel as if my life is at a stand still

Friday, August 28, 2015

How do I proceed

So, I had my pep talk with my friend who helps me put things in perspective at least this one particular thing. 

I have often been told I have to do what makes me happy. But what's makes me happy does not make God happy. There's a conflict. It's not about me anymore. But if my heart isn't right then I am doomed anyway right? 

Is this where I endure and continue to apply self control? So why do I want to cry!!! I am tired of this feeling!!!  I feel like I have no one to talk to!! I feel so lonely!! 

I have to figure it out, I hate hearing those words!!!! Wish it would all go away!!!! 
Suicide is so ideal, but would anyone really miss me!!!! Or just miss what I do for them!!! 

Am I missing the big picture here, being strong take such a toll! I just want to be weak for a change. Let someone else be strong for me!!!! I am getting tired, I want to lay down and give up! 

But no one is listening!!!!!

Thursday, August 27, 2015

Professional help

Thinking of seeing a psychiatrist. I am creating a world that doesn't exist and its driving me crazy. My reality some may say is a good one. Husband who "loves" me. Good children! I guess people like me, so they say. But I am missing something physically and emotionally. I don't think it will ever be fulfilled. After nearly 30 years of not being I don't think it will be so why continue to try!

I need someone to talk to freely without worrying about offending anyone, hurting someone's feelings. I just need to talk and talk freely!!! 

Maybe I am suffering from general anxiety. I don't know, something just isn't right! 

I think I allow my life into some else's hand, not a good thing. 
I am not happy and I see opportunities passing me by but because of my current situation I can't do anything about it! 

Really sucks 

Crazy Situation

I am in love with someone who is not in love with me and someone who is in love with me, I am not in love with... Crazy situation!!!😕😕😕

Wednesday, August 26, 2015

It felt good

Just sitting here thinking about my past. A must happier time, emotionally at least. Maybe because I was oblivious to life, whatever that means. I had a person in my life that made me very happy-emotionally, mentally, and physically. They just made me feel good and I miss that so much!!! Wishing I could go back into time. Now the person is married to someone else. 

I could be myself and not walk on egg shells. I miss them!! 

Tuesday, August 25, 2015

What am I going through

Just thinking about my life that's all
It's not the worst..... But.....
Maybe I am having a midlife crisis
I need that hug that "washes all your problems away"
Bury my head in someone's chest
Someone I actually like lol
Need to made love to until I fell asleep, huh yeah.
Realizing having something in common with your mate is so important especially when you get older and the kids grow older because then the focus is on the two of you. And you have to get along and like each other.
I don't know maybe I am just talking out of my head again.
What am I going through? 

Not related

So bad I wish I had someone that I can relate to. It makes life better!!! 😀😀😀

Why we allowing personality killings?

Why do we allow our spouse kill us.
Kill us how you may ask. Well, once we compromise our personality, in a sense they are killing our spirit of who we are. They kill what makes us fun, vibrate, joyous. 
They kill our likes and try to make them dislikes because they don't like it. It's not fair but some allow that to happen. I say then just kill the rest of me. Because I am  just a dead man walking. 

Saturday, August 22, 2015

Feeling Lonely

Have you ever been surrounded by people and still felt lonely? It seems as if no understands you or that you relate to anyone. It's a horrible feeling!!! 😕😕😕😕😕

What I like

What do I like....

The color pink. Bright and cheerful
Fruity drinks ( alcohol and non alcohol)
Knitting (self taught)
Road trips
People- depending on their personality 
Intelligent conversations 
Making money
Spending money, guess that goes without saying lol
Trying new things, must be legal
Eating, love trying new dishes, especially from other cultures. 
Love songs, Luther, Whitney, they can't be beat!!!!
Watching tv- too many shows to name

Friday, August 21, 2015

Crazy Thinking

My mind have been going a mile a minute lately. My emotions all over the place. Suicide have even been on my mind a lot. But I already know that's not an option only because I have children, although they are grown, I still consider their feelings and I guess that's fair. 

Where do I begin? What do you do when your heart and mind decide not to communicate with each other? When you KNOW one thing but your heart goes on the opposite direction despite you trying to rationalize with yourself. You do a reality check but your heart doesn't listen. 

At times I just talk to God and ask him to take this feeling from me. It's hard to deal with. I guess when something is engrained in you and you try to change its going to be that way from time to time. 

There are times when I wish I didn't exist. Times I wish I could go back in time and make different decisions. I guess we all do from time to time. 

You can't make the people you want to fall in love with you. My heart hurts daily!!
I guess I want what I want. But for the rest of my life I have to settle because of not knowing myself enough to make a better decision. DAYUM!!!

New job!!!!

Where do I start. It's been a while since I posted something, almost a year. So what's been going on since then. Well, I have changed jobs from per diem Home Health Aide to full time Commercial Property Inspector. I like it much better because I am not in one place for a long period of time. One thing I have noticed about me is that I can and do at times get bored very quickly if it is something that I am not that passionate about. 

We get to travel a lot. So far it's been Jersey, Maryland, Virginia and DC. Since I enjoy driving and taking pictures, this job goes hand in hand. 

It pays pretty well once they process the work. We can make anywhere from $30 to $60 a job. Plus when we go out of state there's bonus pay per job. So this is awesome. 

I so love the freedom!!!