my niece posted this about her relationship! I thought was just beautiful!!!
AND I get to kiss him at midnight tomorrow night!!!
Lifelong commitment is not what everyone thinks it is. It's not waking up early every morning to make breakfast and eat together. It's not cuddling in bed together until both of you peacefully fall asleep. It's not a clean home and a homemade meal every day.
It's someone who steals all the covers. It's sometimes slammed doors, and a few harsh words, disagreeing, and the silent treatment until your hearts heal. Then...forgiveness!
It's coming home to the same person everyday that you know loves and cares about you, in spite of and because of who you are. It's laughing about the one time you accidentally did something stupid. It's about dirty laundry and unmade beds without finger pointing. It's about helping each other with the hard work of life! It's about swallowing the nagging words instead of saying them out loud.
It's about eating the cheapest and easiest meal you can make and sitting down together at 10 p.m. to eat because you both had a crazy day. It's when you have an emotional breakdown, and your love lays with you and holds you and tells you everything is going to be okay, and you believe them. It's when "HBO and chill" literally means you watch HBO and hang out. It's about still loving someone even though sometimes they make you absolutely insane.
Living with the person you love is not perfect, and sometimes it's hard, but it's amazing and comforting and one of the best things you'll ever experience.
Go ahead and share a picture of the person you love and copy and paste this, make their day.
I read it and agreed and ask, well whats wrong with me to where I don't appreciate my relationship! I thought hard and I said the difference is I'm not in love with my husband, I love him but not in love! My heart has been scared by his words to where I don't feel anything he say or allow anything he do touch my heart anymore!! He tries and that's good but I don't feel the affects anymore!!! 😕😕😕