So every now and again hubby and I talk about how we should not be together because we are so so different! Talking, talking, talking then he says "He doesn't believe in destiny but that I was destined to be a "hood rat"! WHAT!! 😱😱😱 those words just echo in my head!!! I can't do this!!! No one should insult you, especially your spouse!! And I use that word loosely! He is just someone I live with as far as I am concerned!!!